Family Disciple Me responds to the Covid-19 Pandemic.

What Shall we Say About…

Fear

By Tosha Williams

 

As a child, I was afraid of the dark. And by “afraid,” I mean terrified. Every night I went to bed terrified of whatever was hiding under my bed or in my closet. My dad built forts of pillows and covers around me, protecting me from whatever lurked so I could fall asleep.

God eventually made me deal with my fear of the dark, and I’m happy that my children are way less afraid of it than I was.

And yet, there’s always something to be afraid of.

When Coronavirus surfaced in China in December, it was far enough removed that many did not worry too much about it. Pastors in Wuhan, the coronavirus epicenter, implored Christ followers around the world to pray – and many of us did. However, truth be told, we didn’t feel the fear until the virus moved closer to home.

As coronavirus surfaced on our own shores, we all watched the news reports hoping to protect our kids from both the fear and the pandemic. But then sporting events, March Madness, high school dances, celebrations, school and churches cancelled. By now, children are well aware of what’s going on in our world. There’s no protecting them from the knowing about it. They know.

So, what shall we say to them about it?

We can teach them – by word or example – stockpiling, hoarding, isolation, worry, doubt and dread. We can teach them to watch endless news cycles, give them more social media access while they’re out of school, and let our homes break down into places of isolated chaos.

OR, we will use this opportunity as our springboard to speak the truth of God’s Word into their lives. We don’t have to give the next generation new things to be afraid of, but we can teach them how to think godly through it. We can start with where they’re at, talk about what they’re feeling and point them to what God says.

In my home, we’re starting with this Scripture:

“God has not given us a spirit of fear, but one of power, love and sound judgment.” 2 Timothy 1:7 CSB

I’ve sent this verse image to my kids and husband on their devices so that it’s front and center as a family. (Click HERE and scroll to the bottom to access these free verse images for your family.)

Then, from this verse, we’re discussing these three questions:

  • What POWER has God given us over fear today?
  • What SOUND JUDGMENT does He want us to use to make wise decisions about fear?
  • How does God want us to LOVE others through their fear?

We’re recircling these questions almost every day, in one way or another. What is God saying to us through His Word? Why does it matter? What else does God’s Word say to us about this? And, how does God want us to respond in Worship?

The answers to these questions are the beginning of the path through fear, no matter whether it’s fear of coronavirus or the dark.

Reasons to fear will always be part of this world. But God wants us to think different about our fears, with power, love and sound judgement.

This is a marked moment in history for our children’s generation. The template we give them now – the template for how to handle fear – will go with them the rest of their lives.

So, what shall we say to the children?

Let’s disciple them to walk through fear wisely and courageously, with the power, love and sound judgment that ARE from God.

And whether they use these truths in the dark or in a pandemic world, they will be stronger, wiser and more powerful because we did.

© 2020 Tosha L Williams, Family Disciple Me

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What God has said, He will do. He gave His Word, and He’s not going to take it back. Because of this, we can hold on to His unchanging promises in our ever changing world.

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Everything changes, at least, almost everything. In our season of history filled with extraordinary change, we want to look for what is unchanging. Jesus said His Word is one of these things.

An Anchor for Our Souls: God’s Unchanging Character

Knowing God doesn’t change can give us hope and courage, strength and joy. The foundation of our faith is His character, so because He doesn’t change, His word, promises and purpose don’t change, either.

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God’s consuming fire will either burn up our worthless works or make our hearts glow with passion for Him. With hearts afire for Him, we live for more than ourselves. We live for His glory and His Kingdom.

20/20 Vision Check: Look to God’s Unshakeable Kingdom

This world is shaky and in constant upheaval. However, we can be grateful and secure because He has given His children citizenship in a kingdom that is solid, secure and unchanging.

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God wants us to run the race He’s given each of us. We will be able to do this as we keep our eyes on Jesus, looking to Him as our example.

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Godly, faithful heroes ran their races and set an example for us as we run for Jesus, so that we can also run our race well.

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Your whole life flows from your heart, so guard it! In other words, protect your heart, watch over it, be diligent about it! What you allow INTO your heart affects what comes OUT OF your heart.

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To be loving is to seek what’s best for others; to be faithful is to be reliable and trustworthy. This is how God wants us to earn a “good name” – or “likes” – with people.

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